Setting sail on a merchant ship with my husband was a decision that filled me with a mix of excitement and apprehension. As the horizon expanded before us, so too did the challenges and adventures that awaited on the open sea.
The first hurdle to overcome was the inevitable separation from family and friends back home. Stepping onto the ship, I felt a pang of homesickness, knowing that weeks or even months would pass before I set foot on familiar soil again. But alongside the sadness lingered a sense of anticipation, fueled by the promise of new experiences and the boundless possibilities of life at sea.
Adapting to shipboard life was a lesson in flexibility and resourcefulness. Our living quarters, while cozy, required creative organization to make the most of the limited space. Simple tasks like cooking dinner or doing laundry took on a new level of complexity as we adjusted to the rhythm of shipboard routines. Yet, amidst the challenges, there was a sense of camaraderie among the crew that eased the transition, forging bonds that would last far beyond the voyage.
Supporting my husband in his work became my primary focus while onboard. Whether lending at listening ear after a long day’s work or assisting with administrative tasks during port calls, my presence offered a sense of stability and comfort in an otherwise unpredictable environment. But it wasn’t always easy; balancing his needs with my own desires and aspirations required open communication and a willingness to compromise. Yet, for all the challenges, there were moments of pure magic that made it all worthwhile. Watching the sunrise over the endless expanse of the ocean, feeling the salty breeze on my face as dolphins played in the ship’s wake, and exploring exotic ports of call hand in hand with my husband were experiences that filled my heart with joy and gratitude.
Life as a wife on a merchant ship is a journey unlike any other, defined by resilience, adaptability, and unwavering love. While the road may be long and the seas rough, the rewards of shared adventure, exploration, and companionship make every challenge worth overcoming. And as we sail into the unknown together, I know that no matter where the journey takes us, we’ll weather the storms and savour the moments of calm, side by side.
Surbhi Sangrai
w/o Chief officer Abhishek Sangrai onboard MT Hari Prakash